emails I send with zoom invite do not show up the emails go straight to spam

You could send the link from your own email client to ensure they are delivered. There is also a marketplace app, Salepager, for sending Zoom invites and emails that ensures deliverability. 

Hi Lynn thank you so much for your intel and for letting me know about your solutions. Really appreciated your help!  I have been trying to send emails with invite testing with a friend and it lands in her trash spam.